I read somewhere that once in your life, if you are lucky, you will meet that person who will forever divide your life into the time before you met him or her, and the time after. Such is the impact of that person in changing your life.
This 2012, it was not a person for me. (Thankfully, I already met that one person before – but that’s another story.) It was my first long-term solo adventure – backpacking through 11 provinces around Visayas for seven weeks.
Before the Adventure
Prior to embarking on that adventure, I was stuck in a rut. I was working freelance, generally had control of my time, and taking trips as much as I could with friends. But apart from the momentary excitement from those travels, I had not felt deeply passionate or enthusiastic about anything in years.
Throughout that restlessness, a long-ago, almost forgotten childhood dream surfaced – that of exploring new places, alone, and indefinitely, much like the quests I read about in storybooks and watched in cartoons on TV. Except now I would not be on a quest for the end of the rainbow or any goal. The journey itself would be the adventure.
Here at last was something that excited me and made me feel alive every day.
But making the adventure happen was not easy – in fact, it almost did not. Sickness in the family, money concerns as a result, and my own prolonged sickness would be the summary of it. My trip was so uncertain that I only chose to launch my blog and announce my trip the night before I was to leave.
In hindsight, everything that happened prior to that Visayas adventure was an adventure itself that prepared me well for my trip.
I started with slow travel at Jagna, Bohol – quite slow that I had time to watch and help in my host family’s fiesta preparations, and savor one travel destination at a time. I even watched the preparation of the famous Jagna calamay, a true labor of love as preparation time takes four to five hours, most of them to patiently mix the hot, thick liquid.
Mount Cantuyoc at Jagna, Bohol
On a boat to Hilongos, Leyte, I met a girl (angel?) who saved me from being stranded and ensured my safe passage to Tacloban, where my host awaited me. In Babatngon, Leyte, I again continued my slow travel amid butterflies, fireflies, mangroves, coconuts, flowers and delicious organic food at Paruparong Bukid. I also managed to squeeze in a short but relaxing trip to a quiet, seemingly untouched beach.
Kayaking through Paruparong Bukid’s creek and onwards to the river
Biliran found me dazed, on top of one of its many waterfalls, and walking on its Higatangan sandbar at sunrise, late morning, afternoon, and sunset. The simple but happy people of Higatangan island showed me just how much one can be happy with little, and even amid daily hardships.
Samar tested me as my supposed host and guide was nowhere to be found, but this beautiful province gave me moments of timelessness and new friends. Cebu, meanwhile, passed me on a test of judgment and intuition when I let a local in Sibonga lead me to a place I could stay for the night, as Internet searches and questions to a few bloggers yielded no advice on budget accommodations.
And, it was also in Cebu, particularly Moalboal, where I had my first magical and unexpected encounter with a whale shark.
In Negros Oriental, I had some of my crazy and unforgettable firsts, one of them riding a wooden bike – with no brakes – downhill, and intuitively saying yes to a travel invitation from a stranger I met just minutes ago. That decision to go with the flow brought me to an awe-inspiring forest of native, usually endangered trees, some of which were dinosaur-era species, all lovingly planted by one remarkable man.
Morning at Liptong Woodland, Negros Oriental
In Iloilo, I had a satisfying reunion with my favorite oysters; at Anini-y, Antique, I felt like Dora the Explorer at the wild, uninhabited Nogas Island, and the boulders and cliff at Siraan hot spring. In Aklan, my faith in the human heart and spirit soared when the humble staff at Kalibo Mangrove Park made me join their simple and delicious lunch, as the park’s restaurant served no food at that time. Now, when I think of Aklan, I think of its people, not just Boracay.
If I had to pick only one island, one place in Visayas, which really left an impression on me, though, it would be Danjugan Island in Negros Occidental. It is an unspoiled paradise with fish, eels and sharks swimming at ankle-deep waters and eagles circling above the island morning and afternoon. I had the privilege to witness, participate, and facilitate in one of their environmental awareness camps for public school kids. Being in a beautiful place, having genuine interactions with the people, and serving in a way I could, were what made my Danjugan experience the most unforgettable.
Facilitating a oneness-with-nature activity with the Danjugan campers
Capiz was a fitting finale to my seven-week adventure. I met warm, inspired and inspiring people passionate about what they do. Curiously, I felt both the comfort of home and the thrill of adventure at yet another pristine island, Olotayan Island.
Capiz was the final push that made me decide to actively change things in my life.
After the Adventure
During my backpacking, everyday was pure bliss, even amid seeming inconveniences like walking and waiting in line to pump water for the day’s needs. Every day I walked with gratitude, feeling like the richest woman in the world.
Before my adventure, I had felt tired and restless, with nothing exciting me for long. It was not that I really had nothing to be passionate about – it was just that I had been swallowed up by the usual adult preoccupations of surviving and making a living, and was limited by seemingly logical reasons (which I now know as excuses) to allow myself to dream and make it a reality.
Research shows that it takes 21 days to re-wire the brain and change a habit. I had never felt more alive on a daily basis than in my backpacking adventure, and so halfway through that everyday bliss, I asked myself the question that changed everything – “Why can’t it be like this every day?” – followed by, “Why don’t I make it so?”
And so, even before I went home, I made the commitment to do more things that make me come alive. Since I started following my bliss, doors and opportunities have opened for me, and new, interesting people have crossed my path. (Joseph Campbell was right.)
Here are just some of the amazing experiences I had this year as a result of that decision:
- Joining the BlogFestAsia conference in Siem Reap, being amazed by the resilient spirit of Cambodians, and fulfilling one of my bucket-list dreams – exploring Angkor Wat
- Meeting cool travelers and travel bloggers
- Seeing firsthand some of those travel bloggers give schoolkids a library – the first in their school in 50 years
- Traveling again to Capiz, this time with other travel bloggers, to explore its caves, waterfalls and other natural wonders
- Trying more crazy firsts, like trekking barefoot on a muddy trail to the majestic Merloquet Waterfalls in Zamboanga
- Publishing my first travel article online, followed by more
- Also publishing a travel article in print, particularly for a lifestyle magazine
- And of course, traveling more!
I had only ever one regret in my seven-week adventure, but now I am doing what I can to prevent future regrets. I try to make time for what makes me come alive every day – before, I saw such things as luxury or something to do if I had the time, but now I realize I can’t afford not to make time for this.
And, I also look forward to the day when doing what makes me come alive will also make me a good, sustainable living. I work and hope for that. For now I go with the flow.
This is an entry to the Pinoy Travel Bloggers blog carnival “This Year In Travel” hosted by Gay Mitra-Emami of Pinay Travel Junkie and Regine Garcia of Between Coordinates.
43 thoughts on “The Adventure in 2012 That Changed Everything”
Fun-filled 2012 indeed! More travels next year. Hopefully next year I can have my whale shark encounter too! Happy New Year! 😀
Thanks, Missy! 🙂 More travels to you too!
I like the idea of traveling slow and really savoring the place, people and culture. You mentioned a lot of places that are really off the tourist radar, which is always refreshing. Hope I can do some long-term backpacking next year too. Cheers, Claire! 🙂
Cheering you on for your long-term backpacking adventure, Kara! 🙂
What a wonderful year of travel and adventure you had this year! I love how your travels also helped with your personal growth. I am going to spend some time going back to your old posts to read up on your 7-week journey. I was born and grew up in Negros Occidental abd left when I was 10 so looking forward to some great reads. Best wishes and more travels for 2013!
Negros Occidental – the land of Danjugan Island. If you ever visit Negros Occidental again, I highly recommend that island. =) Thanks for reading and cheers to more adventures in 2013! 🙂
great year! including volunteerism. nice to see when people start to include outreach while traveling. adds value to an unforgettable journeys.
cheers to another year of great travel! thanks for dropping by eskapo.
Thanks, Dong Ho! Here’s to more great adventures in 2013! 🙂
A well-written post. I really like the way you write– it’s cool and heartwarming. Congratz on the success you’ve achieved this 2012! Cheers for 2013! Happy travels! 🙂
PS. I salute you for the 7-week backpacking trip around Visayas! 🙂
Wow! Thanks, Ephraim! 🙂 Here’s to more great adventures for us this 2013! Hope to travel with you one day. 🙂
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Wow! 😀 I don’t have the guts for a solo backpacking trip…yet. 😀 I am so loving your photo in Danjugan…and the whale shark, I have yet to see. Happy new year, Claire! And cheers to more travels in 2013. ^_^
P.S. You’re one of the PTB peeps I’d love to meet! Hope to see you on the road somehow, someday. ^_^
I highly recommend people try solo travel at least once in their lives. 🙂 It’s a different kind of experience.
Here’s to a 2013 full of amazing adventures!
Yes, I hope to meet you too, Cris! 🙂
Sabi nga ni Lea Salonga, “What a journey it has been..” Hehe
Happy new year, Claire. May your 2013 be more awesome!
Hahahahahaha! Can’t help but hear the song in my head. 🙂 Happy New Year!
“Why can’t it be like this every day?” and “Why don’t I make it so?” are two questions I met in 2012 after i resigned from THE job and had to find my way back again after a month of hiatus. Although I have yet to find that courage to go “radical sabbatical” the answers to the 2 questions are a big YES and there are so many ways of doing so through my little ways and more. Such an inspiring reflection and inspiration as 2013 came into us. Thanks, God bless and Happy New Year, Claire!
Happy New Year, Roniel! 🙂 Here’s to following our bliss! 🙂
ur photos are great! what an awesome year that was for you.keep on travelling…light 🙂
You too! Thanks, Nik!
Whenever I read a blog I always find out why that blog is name as it is. This yearender defining your journey speaks why your blog is called traveling light. =)
Thanks, Jherson! Your words affirm my writing. 🙂
Welcome see you on the 13th ate clair =)
Light Traveler pala hehe
Amazeballs, Claire! 🙂 Everything was laid out to you as if these destinations were awaiting your visit.. I admire your determination to travel solo and to explore these wonderful places in Visayas.. I could only dream of these and your achievements, for now. 🙂 Hope to meet you in person, and travel with you soon! 🙂
I suppose we all start with dreaming, Mai. 🙂 I’m sure it will be reality if you really go for it. Sure, let’s keep each other informed about our travels and maybe we can travel together sometime. Add me up on Facebook or let’s follow each other on Twitter.
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sana makita ko na din yang whale shark na yan 🙂 great job girl! daming adventures!!! cheers for more this year! hope to meet you (and all other ptb’s) soon in the future! happy 2013!
Thanks for dropping by! 🙂 Cheers for more adventures!
Re: whale shark watching, I recommend Donsol, Sorsogon. 🙂 Whale sharks are not common in Moalboal – and in Oslob, they engage in questionable practices that ultimately harm these gentle creatures.
Awesome 2012!!! 🙂 Never tried solo backpacking yet but looking forward to at least see myself traveling alone. hats off to you for traveling solo and for the 7 week backpacking trip that’s really amazing! 🙂
Thanks, Riz! Yes, I encourage you to try traveling solo. It’s a different and amazing experience. 🙂
Oh what wonderful adventures you are having. I am so envious of the whale shark experience you had. I missed them in Belize by only 2 weeks and have been dying to scuba with them ever since. Hopefully I’ll get my chance soon.
The photographs on your site are just wonderful and definitely capture inner light.
We are new to your website but be sure to keep checking in to see what you’re up to.
Thanks, Mindy and Ligeia! I’m not a professional photographer, but your comment made me smile. Why not come to the Philippines soon? It’s whale shark season until April, though some can still be seen in May, I think. Sorsogon is one of the best places which practice responsible tourism to interact with these gentle giants.
Checked out your blog, too. I would love to go to Chiang Mai, too, especially for the Yi Peng festival. 🙂
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